Plug it in or charge it up and explore its sensations on your body. When you're ready, home in on the areas you eroticize most--it is ideal for penile stroking, clitoral vibrating, teasing the nipples, and relaxing muscles all over the body as well. The Magic Wand isn't intended to be used for penetration of any kind (although you can get attachments that can do that, powered by the vibe). It's a reminder that our external bodies are the source of some of our deepest pleasures.