Strap-On Harness

Browse our selection of sexy, comfortable, easy-to-use strap-on harnesses for all bodies, genders, and orientations, and pair it with your favorite strap-on dildo to explore all types of penetration!

What is a Strap-On Harness?

"Strap-on harnesses built into various clothing items are available, most often as a corset or other item of lingerie. Some are designed to be worn underneath normal clothing for quick use (if done with the dildo in place, either to give the appearance of a penis or to be able to quickly initiate intercourse, this is sometimes called packing), while others take advantage of the additional strength and sturdiness an item of clothing can provide over a few straps, or just to integrate the strap-on into an erotic outfit." (Wikipedia)

Strap-on harnesses offer a way for partners to explore hands-free penetration with their partners. The strap-on holds a harnessable dildo in place for penetration. They are typically worn over the hips but also come in thigh, hand, and face straps too. Strap-ons can be used by all genders and sexual orientations and can work for vaginal, anal, and oral penetration, as well as for gender confirmation, or simply for aesthetic.

Straps should fit comfortably on the body of the wearer. Most will have interchangeable O-rings to fit a variety of dildo sizes as well.  Harness-compatible dildos are available in different shapes, styles and sizes.

Creativity and Control: Harness the Power of Strap-on Play

Here are some of the most widely used, sexy and comfortable types of harnesses:

• Two-Strap Harness - Probably the most famous style of strap-on gear, this traditional two-strap style harness is manufactured from different materials, such as leather, nylon, or cotton. This style leaves the wearer’s genitals and butt accessible for additional stimulation during couple's play.
• Underwear-Style Harness - Underwear-style harnesses slip on more like briefs, panties, or shorts. This design is different to a traditional two-strap style in that there are no straps for adjusting, they come fitted like clothing. They are extremely popular for being very comfortable and easy to use. No straps or buckles required! These styles are usually made from stretchy fabric, suitable for all-day wear and are machine washable.
• Leather Harness - Leather is one of the most classically used materials for harnesses. It’s long-lasting and can break in nicely with regular use. Plus with leather, the look, the smell, the feel, and the attention to caring for the material - can be a huge turn-on for many.
• Thigh Harness - Thigh harnesses are perfect for those looking to keep access to their genitals in play, or for comfort and mobility needs. Simply strap on to your thigh and your partner can straddle your leg to unlock new positions and possibilities.
• Strapless Strap-On - Unlike traditional double-sided dildos, these are designed for hands-free, harness-free, dual penetration of both partners. One end goes inside the wearer while the other penetrates their lover. Strapless dildos don’t require a harness to use, though some may still enjoy wearing them for added stability.

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Strap-On Sex 101: Having Fun with Harness Dildos

First, you need to find a harness that fits your body. Choose something that you find both comfortable and cute. We recommend that you try it on alone before trying it out in use, just to get familiar with how it feels.

You can insert the dildo into the O-ring either before or after the harness has been placed on. If the harness has a hole through the material, plus an O-ring, place the dildo through both for extra stability. Check if everything is well-adjusted and in its place. We recommend using lubricant and reapplying when needed, for easier and more pleasurable penetration.

Be sure to communicate with your partner about how it feels and if any other positions are needed. For more tips, check out our Strap-On 101 blog post.

Couple's Play - Benefits of Using a Strap-On with a Partner

For many, using strap-on dildos and harnesses help to create different experiences and opportunities to try out with their partners. Using a strap-on dildo is also a great way to enjoy P-spot and G-spot stimulation. Whether you’re trying out pegging for the first time, looking for gender affirmation, or just prefer penetration with dildos, we’ve got harnesses and dildos for every type of user.

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