Putting the Pro in Prostate!
Did you know regular stimulation of the prostate can be good for prostate health? Yet many people still haven’t made the acquaintance of this small but mighty gland.
So, allow us to introduce you!
The prostate is sometimes referred to as the “male” g-spot (or the "p-spot") because of its association with providing intense orgasms, and that’s much more than a coincidence. The prostata femina, a.k.a the g-spot, is actually analogous to the prostate, meaning they have a lot in common!
Regardless of gender, the prostate gland is located just under the bladder, and is wrapped around the urethra—it’s not inside the anus or vagina as many assume. The anus, being an equal opportunity orifice is an excellent way to access the prostate since it resides just on the other side of the anal wall—it’s especially close in those with penises. For folks with vulvas, entering through the vagina will give you more direct access via the front vaginal wall. Today we’re headed through the back door and focusing on rear entry.
Remember, "The Key to Pleasurable Anal Sensation is Relaxation, Communication, and Lubrication.”
Gently massage the anus with the flat pad of your well-lubricated finger. As the sphincter muscles relax you can actually see the anus move outward, it almost looks like it's blowing a little kiss! Let the massage evolve into a gentle glide inward – gentle and slow, tip in, don't poke. If anal play meets with approval, lube up even more and gently slide your finger about two inches in and curve it toward the belly – there lies the prostate .
Arousal can also play a role in locating it, since the p-spot feels different from the surrounding area and the more turned on the person is, the more pronounced it becomes. Many people enjoy stroking sensations here like the classic curved, rhythmic “come hither” motion. You might also like pressure, vibration, or even tapping.
It’s not uncommon for penises to lose their firmness while the anus is being stimulated, but that’s less to do with levels of arousal and more to do with the blood flow moving towards the center of pleasure and stimulation. Stroking of the prostate is often so pleasurable that it can cause clear prostatic fluid to drip from the urethra. In fact, orgasm may still result from direct stimulation of the p-spot, which may lead to ejaculation regardless of erection. Want to keep the energy going in the front and back of the house? Try adding some oral play or a hand job while pleasuring that prostate- now that's a party for sure!
Pro(state) Tip: In addition to making sure your hands are well groomed and/or manicured, gloves can help smooth out any sharpness of your nails and cuticles so you’re less likely of scratching anyone accidentally, and makes for less mess when you're lubing up or cleaning up. Plus, the snap when they’re put on and the look of a sleek glove? Sexy AF .
So check out why the p-spot is a pro spot for pleasure, regardless of gender identity or orientation, and try giving this spot some back door lovin' next time you play.