Pack-and-Play: How to Pack a Cock
If you want to get that bulge in your pants and you’re not planning on having sex with your cock, check out the Sailor Soft Pack (formerly the GV Soft Pack) or the latest Private Silicone Packer. Packers look and feel realistic. You can wear a packer in briefs, jockey shorts or a jockstrap, without needing a harness.
Another option is to use a dildo and harness. Many people find the fabric harnesses are a bit easier to wear for extended periods and they’re machine-washable, but if you prefer the look or feel of leather, go for it. Larger dildos can be tricky to pack since you have to bend them down to fit in your clothes. This can cause them to tear at the base, especially if the harness is holding it very snugly. It may be easier for you if your pants are a bit looser.
Some people will pack with a packer or a smaller dildo and then switch to a larger one when it’s time to have sex. Realistic Silicone Dildos are especially popular for packing because they’re made from silicone, but feel as realistic as possible. They’re also a bit more flexible, so they bend a bit easier.
There are some models of packers that are designed to enable you to urinate while standing up. The FTM Resource Guide has excellent information on different models and DIY tips. It’s possible to turn a Sailor Soft Pack into a STP (stand to pee) packer by carefully carving a narrow hole through the shaft and inserting a medical spoon. There are quite a few video guides on how to do this online.