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Gender Expression & Play

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About Packing a Cock

  • Packing is the wearing of a dildo or a packer under clothes.
  • People pack as part of their gender expression, in order to have sex, engage in role play, or for drag.
  • Many dildos and harnesses can be used for packing, although some work better than others.
  • Packers (also called soft packs) are generally too soft to use for penetrative sex. However, they can be worn inside a pair of underwear, making a harness unnecessary.