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First Mate Silicone Dildo

Our very own realistic dildo salutes you! Designed in-house, this big boy has a sculpted head, with  Read More
Staff pick: singled out for being exceptional in content, quality, inventiveness or effectiveness. Phthalates-Free. A featured Good Vibrations pleasure product! Waterproof/Water-resistant toy or books. Harness-compatible toy. Safe to use for anal insertion. Green product fits our eco-friendly values of sustainable and ethically and/or environmentally conscious sex.
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$60.00 - $78.00
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Our very own realistic dildo salutes you! Designed in-house, this big boy has a sculpted head, with prominent coronal ridge for extra sensation -- especially good when you aim it towards the G-spot! Its substantial, vein-textured shaft adds to the realistic look and feel. The straight shaft is strap-on harness-compatible.

Firm-Core Option:
PleasureWorks® knows you like it hard… and soft! So we’re bringing you both at once with our sexy and squeezable firm-core dildo line. Enjoy 100% quality silicone harness-compatible toys with a more lifelike feel than most silicone can offer! Whether you’re looking for a very realistic dildo or simply love the comfort of a softer and more flexible exterior, you’ll love the way the solid inner core gives the rigidity you want from silicone, offering fullness and sensation, while the skin-like exterior offers a smoother feel. Warms to body temperature during use, great with vibrations, easy to clean with mild soap and water, and hand crafted in the USA!

Please note: Dual density silicone can be a little “tacky” on the surface, a property of the much-softer-than usual silicone used on the outside, though once your toys is lubed up, that feeling reduces. We recommend dusting with cornstarch after washing to restore smoothness.

First Mate Silicone Dildo


1 3/4" at the base and 1 1/2" towards the tip
7" insertable length, 7 1/2" total length (17.8cm insertable, 19.1cm total length).

Care and Cleaning

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Note: We are proud to proclaim that each one of these dildos are individually hand crafted right here in the United States. Because these items are hand mixed & handmade, there could be slight color variations from what is pictured.

Body-safe -- Sex toys are made from many different materials, with varying amounts of information available about them, and many have not been tested for safety. We always choose better-quality items, and we give special attention to those we know to be safer.

Made in the USA -- Many sex toy and products are produced overseas. Choosing one that's manufactured and assembled in the United States reduces shipping and has a lower carbon footprint.

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Rating Wow!!! Great product. December 8, 2010

Reviewer: Fuchu68

I am a straight older male, never had any kind of anal sex never used any kind of dildo not sure why I bought this but boy am I glad I did. First time I tried it the lube was not so great, second time I used Astro Lube Gel, lots of it inside me and on the dildo, and man what an experience. Whole different kind of wonderful feeling, beyond good, pure pleasure. Used the suction on the bottom to hold it in place while I sat up and down on it , bliss. had it in to the hilt, the first day of use. gonna try the Capt version next. Really addictive.

Rating HOLY COW!!! July 4, 2009

Reviewer: Petra

I was like alright--I'm ready for my first real dildo. I'd had one in the past that was simply a vibrator of phallic shape, but I wanted something that DIDN'T vibrate (I prefer the vibrations on the outside) and that was not too long, but pretty thick. This guy fit the bill perfectly. And OH MY GOD. I got the all black one since it was the only color left in stock at the time (though color isn't exactly something I was going to be picky about) and it's my new favorite item. Big enough that you might need a bit of lube to help start things off, but isn't uncomfortable or painful. Maybe once I've fully gotten used to this one I can even move up to the captain! But for now, I love my First Mate. The head is very pronounced and the ridge thereafter feels wonderful. The veins add an extra bit of stimulation too, but not too much. The base even provides a bit of suction on its own, though a suction cup would be good for more security.
Highly recommended.

Rating Wonderful June 20, 2015

Reviewer: dougom

I love this dildo. It has a realistic look and feel, is a great size, and feels just wonderful in the hand and mouth. My partner loves it when I use it on them, especially when combined with a vibrator. I have loved this toy since the moment we unboxed it and it still gets regular use. Highly recommended!

Rating Love! June 1, 2012

Reviewer: FemmeFatale

This is the first dildo I've bought, and I am so happy with my purchase! I didn't think I would like a realistic-looking dildo, but I decided to purchase this one based on the positive reviews. I'm glad I did! Love the length, love the girth. I also love how the bottom inadvertently acts as a suction cup, so I can stick it on a chair and ride it. This was a great buy, and I highly recommend it!

Rating WOW!!! March 8, 2012

Reviewer: Callie

THIS is what my girlfriend and I have been dreaming of. Now it's possible. We had a dildo that had too much of an angle which hurt at times. It's perfectly straight, the head will hit your spot just right.
It fills us both up and it is definitely long enough. It puts the most amazing warmth through my body every time. This is the best! We are more than satisfied.

Rating yes! December 28, 2011

Reviewer: GV Affiliate Reviews

If you like big toys, than you will love this toy. It certainly gives you a very full and satisfied feeling. I suggest going heavy on the lubricant, because you will need it.

I’m not sure if this is intentional design for the toy, but I’ve noticed that if you press the toy’s base firmly onto certain flat surfaces with a large enough surface area, for instance, some smooth woods, hard plastics, and countertops, the base actually suction-cups into place. The grip of the base is so strong that it is actually very difficult to remove it from a surface once into place. After discovering this, I tried attaching it to the seat of a clean, hardwood chair to try out woman-on-top. It was more than suitable for this purpose. It never moved out of position once, and I’m only in below-average to average shape. If you like being on top and you have a good place to attach the First Mate, I think you’ll love this application of the toy.

--from our reviewer, Kisses and Kinks

Rating Awesome toy! December 6, 2011

Reviewer: Newly wed wife

What a great product! My husband bought me my new toy and I just love it! I like that this dildo isn't big like some of the other dildos available online. It is very natural and a good size to enjoy without any fear of being painful. I can't wait to use it with my husband next time :)

Rating Wow! September 28, 2011

Reviewer: Oregon coast lady

The First Mate is a good length, width, and the veins make the dildo realistic. Vaginally the First Mate is great, anal will take a little bit to get use to.

Rating hits the G-spot September 6, 2011

Reviewer: GV Affiliate Reviews

During use all the veins can be felt in an abstract sort of way, but the coronal ridge (aka bottom of the head) is very noticeable, and the toy created some nice G-spot stimulation when thrusting. VERY nice!

--from our reviewers, Alan & Michelle

Rating so realistic! August 3, 2011

Reviewer: GV Affiliate Reviews

The first thing I noticed was how freakin’ realistic it was. This is darn near perfect, if you ask me.

--from our reviewer, Teagan Shepard

Rating my new favorite! June 7, 2011

Reviewer: kiki rose

Great realistic choice for folks who don't like the softer dual density dildos. Some people like something a little firmer but still realistic - this is perfect for that. Easy to harness or hold in your hand. I especially like the length. There are so many dildos that are the right diameter but not long enough using in a harness. This one got it right.

Rating a fantastic toy! January 19, 2011

Reviewer: GV Affiliate Reviews

The First Mate Silicone Dildo is 7 inches long and 1.5 inches in diameter. Ours is jet black with a matte finish. It is absolutely gorgeous in our SpareParts Hardware Theo harness. The size of this cock is perfect for sucking and for pegging. It is big enough to say, “Wow, what a big cock you have!” but not so big that as to make you say, “Yikes! What a big cock you have!” It has a pronounced head and raised veins which 1) make it look very real and 2) make it feel absolutely fantastic during insertion and even better during thrusting.

--from our reviewer, Mr. Pegging

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